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HOW DO I CHANGE?

1. Hold my ‘SELF’ ACCOUNTABLE (constantly reviewing self) to continuously improve, personally & professionally;

2. Read (davidkelly of ideo, simonsinek etc), google (garyvee, davidgoggins etc), listen to & observe others (credible~trusted ones) on WAYS to improvements;

3. Be DRIVEN to ACT on the WAYS!

4. REVIEW & ALIGN constantly till desired outcomes are achieved!

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HOW I DON’T JUDGE OTHERS?

1. Hold on to my BELIEF that everyone is unique in beliefs, thoughts & behaviours;

2. “Seek first to understand” & intentionally ENGAGE them;

3. Share with them my views & ideas in ways they UNDERSTAND;

4. REMEMBER my relational & engagement specifics for each person according to respective uniqueness; &

5. Repeat Step 1-4 for the next person.

I remind my ‘self’ with my mantra “Don’t be a lazy communicator!” & to be interested-curious about the person that I’m engaging with.

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How to be influential with subordinates?

1. Build deep deep RAPPORT;

2. Enhance credible TRUST; &

3. Always INFLUENCE for win-win outcomes!

Details…

1. Build Rapport by knowing their career values & communication styles;

2. Guard the Trust you build with “YOUR LIFE” because once broken … ; &

3. Win-Wins happen only when we get what we want by helping them get what they want!